Khushi's dose of the day!! Compliment a day, keeps frowning away!

Mummy : Khushi you have spoilt 5 sets of crayons in last one month Khushi : It's ok Mumma Mummy : No, Its not OK Khushi : Mumma, you complain all the time. You should compliment also sometimes. Mummy : Don't I compliment you for all the good things you do? Khushi : Yes, you do...But you should compliment people atleast once everyday!!

Yes!! We should compliment somebody atleast once a day. We are taught this in our MANAGERIAL CORPORATE TRAININGS. Guess our kids are getting ready for the corporate world at the age of 5.

Avani's dose of the day!! Kids can really talk!

Avani is just 2 yrs but all thanks to her talkative genes (mothers!) and her elder sister at home that she has started speaking complete long sentences. When I say she has started speaking, she speaks her mind and not just repeating you. Initial few times when she told me "Mummy, aap nice dekh rahe ho!" or "Aap gym ja rahe ho? Aap waha exercise karoge?" or  "AAp internet par ho?" and other sentences,  I found it to be very cute, but not something special. But yesterday she surprised me.

Khushi (5 yrs) and Avani (2 yrs) were fighting with each other as to who will cut the birthday cake?

Khushi    : Its my birthday in April, so I will cut the cake.

Avani      : No, its my birthday, I will cut the cake!

Mummy  : Avani, its didi's birthday. She will cut the cake. Your birthday is on Christmas, dont you remember we cut your Elephant cake last December?

Khushi    : See I told you, its my birthday and I will cute the cake!

(Khushi started making all faces and teasing Avani with her tongue out and

hands flapping by her ears. And I thought, now Avani is going to start crying. But her answer took me aback. She looked at Khushi's funny face for a bit and like a carefreee composed adult replied)

Avani     : Tu MONEKY Hai kya? Monkey jaise faces bana rahi hai!

Why travel hard when you can travel smart?

Travelling around the world was one of the first vows I had asked my husband before marrying him. I have an undying passion for travelling and I want to make sure before I die, I have travelled at least half the world if not all. So, for fulfilling this passion, I make sure whatever happens, we plan at least one international and one national vacation in a year. It is done well in advance, in fact almost 8-9 months in advance with every possible thing pre-booked. From flight, to hotels, to sightseeing tickets to taxi hire. Everything is pre-booked so that we have to just go and enjoy the vacation.

Me being the tech savvy and he being the banker, we have distributed the planning as per our forte. Budgeting, timing and logistics remains with the MAN and I do all the packing (Mammoth task with a 4 yr and a 2 yr old indeed), head hunting, summarizing and itinerary.

Have you heard of the 4 Ps in marketing which needs to be considered for any successful project? They are Product, Place, Price and Promotion. My vacation planning being a very important project (for me), I apply the 4Ps model for a smart vacation planning and here goes DIPTI’s VACCATION PLANNING CLASSES:

SMART LOCATION SHORT-LISTING (Place):

The foremost decision of any vacation is the PLACE where you would like to go on a vacation. Being a married, working, mother of two hyperactive tiny tots, I have more tourist places blacklisted than white listed.

I can’t take long flights because it’s impossible to travel for 18-20 hours with tiny tots. I can’t go to non-English speaking countries on a self-travel itinerary. South Africa would have restrictions for kids and Australia/NZ is too far. Tourist friendly, Asian countries are more or less done.  So we boiled down to Europe this time.

Europe is considered to be the most picturesque and romantic location for a vacation. France, Italy, Spain, United Kingdom, Belgium, Netherlands, Tunisia, Austria and Liechtenstein, every destination is in itself a great expedition. And though I plan to visit all of them at some point of time, I am restrained by time and budget for this time. I never get satisfied with a hurried travel and hate to run from one place to the other. On my vacation, I like to revisit some places and also sometimes just explore the town on my own to find out the treasures which are undiscovered or less known. So after a lot of deliberation with my better half, we decided the two most beautiful countries in Europe - Switzerland and France.

 SMART PLANNING (Product, Price, Promotion)

Vacation planning is the most crucial and fun part of any vacation. With so much information present on the web, it has almost become like ROCKET SCIENCE to extract the useful information out of the junk. But with a little bit of smartness and few smart application and websites like SKYSCANNER you can master the art of vacation planning.

So I start with reverse engineering for the planning. I collect all the tour packages offered by those fancy Travel and Tour companies. Though going through a group package is the most carefree and economical option for a vacation, it doesn’t suit my taste and my comfort levels. With two small kids, I don’t want to get up at 5 in the morning and sleep at 12 am in the night. I can’t feed them with bread and cheese all 10-12 days nor would I like to disturb their daily schedule much. So for me the brochures of the tour packages are a reference to the tourist attractions I need to plan and also how much time would I need in that particular city. In fact the tour companies also offer personalized travel packages as well, for people like me. But then they are prohibitively expensive and I feel it’s the waste of the smart resources available on the internet if we cannot save that unnecessary expenditure even after being so tech savvy.

So the official tourist website swisstours.com, myswitzerland.com, theswissholidays.co.in came very handy when I was sorting the sightseeing list into MUST SEE, GOOD TO SEE and TIMEFILLER lists. Once I made this list, I referred the country’s map, which are easily available on tourism websites.

The whole research I did  helped me in short listing the airport I want to travel, the exact city and location I want to stay and also the sightseeing places I want to visit.

Now it was time for some ACTION!

SMART TICKETING:

I went to the travel website, put my travel dates and get the list of all airlines flying to the destination. The list had an option of sorting the list based on budget, timings, number of hops, etc. Gone are those days when you needed to go and find the flights on individual airline sites and then collate the data to suit your travel. With no hassle, I compared all the flight options for Switzerland, selected the best suited flight. I also had options to have different arrival and departure destinations.

There are pros and cons of various airlines with respect to time, number of hops, expense etc. You would choose what suits you best. If you are a backpack traveler, of course you would want to experiment with new/less preferred airlines for the mere factor of budgeting.

But I feel too old and wise to travel clueless, so I tried to get the best of both worlds. I went a little overboard on cost, but selected different arrival and departure destinations to suit my travel.

SMART ACCOMODATION:

With constraints of packing unpacking often and carrying as little luggage as possible, I prefer to stay at one central location and then travel to all the places from there. In Switzerland, I figured with the help of the online SWISS MAP and the online Train connectivity that the best place to stay would be LUCERNE. It’s centrally located and has a lot of options for service apartments and hotels.

It’s amazing how you can smartly do the whole research, planning and also execution with smart websites/tools on your finger tips, sitting in the comfort of your home. You provide them the dates, the number of adults and children and the tentative location. The application not only suggest you the availability but also give you 1000 other options as per your requirement. You can sort it by budget, by stars of hotel, by proximity to the downtown, the proximity to public transport and few other filters.

I was thoroughly impressed how it provided a link for reviews of each hotel from renowned sites like Tripadvisor and Mouthshut. Reviews really help in filtering out the good out of the heap of hotel choices you get. Pictures of the room and facilities can be very deceptive at times, so it’s always a good idea to read the reviews of the shortlisted places.

Also read about the usual norms in a particular place, like I was not aware of the breakfast types - Cold and Hot Breakfast buffet. I would have thought of choosing a hot Breakfast buffet as per our Indian tradition of serving hot fresh food but after a little bit of research figured that there are more edible things in a cold buffet than a hot buffet. So a little bit of research, can do a lot of good to you in your vacation.

Another good thing about smart booking is, you have all the discounts, perks, special offers displayed in front of you. There are options of selecting rooms with or without breakfast. Most of the times, Vegetarians like us end up eating two slices of bread and butter out of the whole fancy buffet breakfast displayed in the menu.

On website, I got the option of choosing Service Apartments also.

A very interesting thing about Europe is, you will get service apartment mostly for 7 days at a time. So whether you are staying for 1 day or 7, you pay the same amount. But service apartments work out best for families with kids. I can be rest assured, that I can at least cook and serve one proper meal to the kids if it’s a service apartment.

SMART TRAVELLING :

Train if the most convenient and best way to travel throughout Europe. Euro Rails are known for its picturesque views on the way and also for its convenience factor. Almost everybody in Europe travels by trains. And as a tourist I would be broke if I think of travelling in taxis like I do in Asian countries. So we had two trains to book, one from Paris to Lucerne and another a Swiss pass which would be valid in all trains, buses and some boats in Switzerland.

I wish I would have asked for something more that day. I logged in to book for the train from Paris to Switzerland and guess what?  I got a deal of 70 % off on First class tickets. I got the first class tickets for the same price as the second class. And mind you, these offers are not available with any agent or on the spot buying. You get these offers on and off only on official websites of Switzerland. If I wasn’t using the smart way, I would have never figured out these offers.

I also got the Swiss pass for travelling inside Switzerland for a very good deal. Children below 12 yrs are free on the Swiss rails. And there are few more discounts on sightseeing tickets when you are a Swiss pass holder. 

What a perfect way to make sure people use the public transport; I think our country should learn few good things from them. Alas, we have adapted the not so good things alone.

SMART SIGHTSEEING BOOKINGS:

Imagine, if we can book our visit to TAJ MAHAL online? Or say booking for visiting the Udaipur palace online? Wow, it would save so much of a hassle for tourists. It will reduce so much of loot by local people and save India the shame which is attracted out of lobbying the foreigners.

But anyways, there is a long way to turn our India into Switzerland, so for now I concentrate on my vacation.

Right from Eifel tower to Mount Titlis, everything has a ticket and it can be booked 3 months in advance, ONLINE!  You will again get combined tickets for few places at a discounted rate and some offers here and there.

I got the Disney land passes, Eiffel tower tickets, chocolate factory tickets, Mount Titlis tickets and few others online for a very good price indeed.

Now my 4 Ps are taken care. In theory, I am all set for a rocking project. Now it is time for the real action to start. You can expect a lovely long travelogue once I am back from my well planned vacation.

SMART TIPS FOR SWISS VACATION ASPIRANTS:

1. Tools like SKYSCANNER can save your time, money and energy to 50%. SO BE SMART, BE A SKYSCANNER!! 
2. Most tourist places have their official websites and it helps a lot to research a little before you plan your vacation. For Switzerland its http://www.myswitzerland.com/en-in/home.html  
3. Switzerland has a real-time transport help which gives schedules and route of all trains online. So use http://www.sbb.ch/en/home.html
4. Service apartments are booked for 7 days at a time, so plan your trip accordingly
5. Travel very light as almost all sightseeing places is a full day journey. 3 hours one ways travel to almost any place by train
6. Look out for offers and combo packs for train tickets and sightseeing tickets, SWISS government promotes tourism like no other country so they have offers on everything from flight to sightseeing tickets
7. Lastly, do all your booking quite in advance for holiday season. From April to July, the hotels, apartments, flights and sightseeing tickets get sold out 3-4 months in advance
8. Online visa application can be done but mind yout it has a long list of documentation to be taken care off
9. Make sure you carry enough currency(CHF and Euros) with you because exchange rates on credit cards are always 20 % high than cash

This blog is intended to participate in the contest at indiblogger.in by http://www.skyscanner.co.in

Tresses as per moods

One day I feel like a school going girl, one day I am the responsible mommy. One day I want to be a rebel and the other I want to act holy. One day everything under the sun is ugly and the other day life is beautiful. So many different kind of moods each day and one hair style?? Not a just thing according to me!
I must have an option of changing our hair style, hair color, hair texture and hair length everyday! Like we can change clothes, I should have the liberty of changing everything as per my moods everyday.
Its a fantastic idea and in today's world, its a doable thing too. I can go to the hair stylist and change my hair do everyday. Can experiment with temporary and permanant hair colors every month if not every week. Perming, ironing, straightening etc are all available and are just a call away literally. And length of hair can be adjusted with various hair accessories and extensions. It all sounds so easy and fun. Playing with your own hair as and when you wish.
But there is a huge gap between reality and fantasy. Everyday the big bundle of broken hair in the bath tub sinks my heart and I am afraid of combing my hair after that trauma. Coloring of hair can be compared to suicide when you know what are the side effects of hair colour. And similar side effects of perming and straightening are seen. So I cant risk to loose my lovely tresses for my fantasies.

But there seems to be a ray of hope. Dove Go play video says, its possible.  Lets find out how.

This post is written with the intention of participating in the contest by #Dove organized by indiblogger.in

Friends Forever

We had a Short Story Contest in our society last week. I was in the organizing committe, so I had no intentions of asking my 4.8 yrs old daughter,Khushi Sarawagi, to write for the contest. But when I told her about the contest, she got very excited.She insisted that she also want to participate, so for fun I asked her to tell me the story and I will write it for her. And below  is the exact story she narrated. As a mother, I am so proud of her for being so expressive at this age. Just wanted to share my joy to my closest buddy - My BLOG. So here we go...

Once upon a time, there was a very beautiful girl named Cinderella. She has come to the jungle from a nearby village. All the animals were dazzled looking at her beauty. They all found her very pretty. They thought she is so beautiful that she would know the way to the secret Golden Caves.

So the animals inquired if Cinderella knew the way to the secret golden caves. But alas she didn’t know the way. She was accompanied by another beautiful girl SnowWhite. They were best of friends and from the same village. She asked SnowWhite if she knew where the gold caves were but she also didn’t know the way.

Suddenly Cinderella remembered something and followed her instincts. To everybody's surprise, Cinderella’s instincts have led them to the secret gold caves.

There was a lot of gold there. Jewelry, pearls, and golden utensils everything was present there.

Cinderella took few pieces of golden jewelry, SnowWhite took a few and then they gave a few to the other animals as well.

They returned home excited and showed their respective Moms the gold they have brought from the secret gold caves. Their Mothers were also very happy. Then the two girls started making their castle with the money they got by selling the gold.

The two started competing with each other and showing off how beautiful their houses are. They were no more friends.

One day their mothers insisted on taking them to the caves to see the gold themselves.

When they went to show their mothers the gold caves, their mothers leaped on the treasure at once.

And to everybody's surprise the two mother's turned into a statue. Cinderella and SnowWhite didn’t know that the gold was cursed and it can be touched only by the kids. If any adult touches the gold, they would turn into gold and become a golden statue.

They both cried a lot but couldn’t get their mothers back. That was the moment both of them realized that they love each other. Their friendship is more important than their castles to them. They had lost their mothers and now they didn’t want to lose friend.

Then they both stayed happily together and loved each other very much.